Terms of Service

Last updated November 11, 2026

These terms are an agreement between you and INVITEDIN LLC (“we”, “us”), which operates the InvitedIn iPhone app. By creating an account or using the app, you agree to them, to our Privacy Policy and to our SMS Terms. If you don’t agree, don’t use InvitedIn.

1. Who can join

• You must be 18 or older. InvitedIn is for adults only.
• InvitedIn is invitation only: you join through a member’s invite link or a group’s invite link.
• One account per person. The information you give us must be true and your own.
• You can’t join if we’ve removed you before, or if the law doesn’t allow you to use the app.

2. Your account

You sign in with a one-time code sent to your email, or to your phone once you’ve confirmed it. Keep them secure, and tell us at support@invitedin.app if you think someone else got into your account. You’re responsible for what happens on your account.

3. Verification

New members start as Not Verified. To become Verified, you confirm your email (and your phone number, when we ask for one), add a photo of your face, and pass a short face check that confirms you’re a live person who matches that photo. The Privacy Policy explains what the face check collects and how long it’s kept. If the face check doesn’t work for you, email support. Every member can use every feature, Verified or not, and other members always see which you are, next to your name. We may ask you to verify again, and we may take Verified away if your details turn out to be wrong.

4. Invites

You’re responsible for who you invite: invite only real people you know, who are 18 or older. If people you invite break these terms, we may limit or remove your ability to invite.

5. Rules

InvitedIn has no tolerance for objectionable content or abusive members. You must not:

• Share anything involving a minor in a sexual way. We remove it, close the account and report it to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC). There are no exceptions.
• Share intimate images of anyone without their consent, or threaten to.
• Harass, threaten, bully, stalk, extort or blackmail anyone, or encourage violence or self-harm.
• Pretend to be someone else, or make fake or duplicate accounts.
• Share hateful, violent or degrading content, or content that attacks people for who they are.
• Share anything illegal, or anything you don’t have the right to share.
• Send spam or scams, or sell things without our permission.
• Take screenshots or recordings in the app (section 7), or share other members’ content outside InvitedIn without their permission.
• Try to get into accounts or data that aren’t yours, scrape the app, or interfere with how it works.

6. Your content

You own what you share. You give us a worldwide, non-exclusive, royalty-free license to store, process and show it to the people you share it with, only so we can run InvitedIn. That license ends when the content is deleted, except where we must keep it for safety or by law.

We check photos and videos automatically. Graphic violence and hate symbols are refused everywhere. In profile photos, group and event photos, posts, and groups anyone can find (Open and Approval groups), clearly sexually explicit photos and videos are refused, and ones that may be sexually explicit wait for our team to approve them before anyone else sees them. In 1:1 chats, invite-only (Hidden) groups and comments on Hidden events they aren’t refused or held. A post with a photo waiting for approval shows only to you until it’s approved, and is removed if it isn’t. Sexually explicit photos and videos we allow are hidden behind a cover in the app, except in 1:1 chats and invite-only (Hidden) groups, where they show as sent; a bare chest or a kiss isn’t covered. Every photo and video is also checked against known child sexual abuse images (section 5). We remove location data from the photos you share.

7. Disappearing photos and videos, and screenshots

In a 1:1 chat, either person can turn on disappearing messages, so each message disappears for both people a set time after it’s seen. Like everything else in the app, the other person may still have seen, noted or photographed it before then.

You can send a photo or video that disappears after one or two views. We delete it from our servers afterwards, unless it’s reported, but we can’t stop someone from photographing their screen with another device, so share only what you’re comfortable sharing.

Screenshots and screen recordings aren’t allowed, and the app may make them come out blank. When you take one, the app tells the people in that chat (the whole group, in a group chat) or the member whose profile it was. Your first one is a warning; your second, anywhere in the app and at any time, pauses your account until we review it, and repeated capturing can get your account removed.

8. Blocks, reports and enforcement

You can block or report any member, message, post, comment, group or event, and hide any post from your Feed, from its ••• menu or by holding it. We review every report within 24 hours. When content or behavior breaks these terms, we remove the content (our team can remove any post or comment), and we may limit features, pause or remove the account and contact the authorities, at our discretion and without notice where that’s needed to keep people safe.

9. Posts, groups and events

You choose who sees each post when you send it: members of your groups, or members near you on Nearby (only while you show on Nearby, and only your broad area, never your exact location). Posts show for 7 days, or disappear after 24 hours if you choose. You can delete your posts at any time. Don’t post anything you wouldn’t want the people you sent it to to see; they can reply, react and comment.

Groups and events are run by the members who create them. Meeting people in person carries real risk: meet in public places, tell a friend where you’re going, and trust your judgment. We don’t check events or the people at them, and we aren’t responsible for what happens there.

Events can check guests in with a QR code from the app. The host, co-hosts, admins of the event’s groups, staff the host adds and our team can scan codes and see who checked in. Each code works once and expires 30 seconds after it’s made. Whoever checks you in may confirm that you match your profile photo, which can make your profile Verified. If they report that you don’t match, your check-in is undone and your account is suspended for 24 hours while our team reviews it; we may lift the suspension sooner or keep it.

A group’s owner can let its members decide who joins. In such a group, any member can nominate someone, and someone who asks to join is nominated too. A nominee is asked to accept first; the group then votes for 4 days. Votes are blind and final. Under 10 members, everyone must vote yes; in bigger groups a set number of yes votes is needed (at least 10, rising with the group’s size and never dropping as it grows) and at least 60% of the votes cast must be yes. If the vote passes, the nominee joins; if it doesn’t, they can’t be nominated to that group again for 90 days. The owner can still add a few people directly.

10. Ending your account

You can delete your account at any time in the app (Profile, then the gear, then Delete account), confirming with a code, or by emailing support. Your profile is hidden from other members right away and you’re signed out. If you sign back in within 7 days, you can keep your account; after that it’s deleted for good: your profile, photos and verification, your messages (for everyone in the chat), posts, comments and reactions, and your invite link. Groups you own pass to their oldest admin, or their oldest member, and events you host are cancelled. Reports about your account are kept for safety. We may also suspend or remove your account if you break these terms, if the law requires it, or to protect members or InvitedIn.

11. The app is provided as is

InvitedIn is new and changing. We provide it “as is” and “as available”, without warranties of any kind, to the fullest extent the law allows. We don’t promise it will always be available, free of errors or secure, or that any member is who they say they are.

12. Limits on our liability

To the fullest extent the law allows, INVITEDIN LLC isn’t liable for indirect, incidental, special, consequential or punitive damages, or for anything members do. Our total liability for any claim about InvitedIn is no more than the greater of $100 or what you paid us in the 12 months before the claim.

13. Disputes

These terms are governed by the laws of the State of New York, without regard to its conflict-of-law rules. Any dispute goes to the state or federal courts in New York County, New York, and you and we agree to their jurisdiction.

14. Changes

We may change these terms. We’ll update the date above and, before a significant change applies to you, tell you in the app. If you keep using InvitedIn after that, you accept the new terms.

15. Contact

INVITEDIN LLC, New York, NY · support@invitedin.app